Oct 15, 2008

For real this time

Ugh, ok, let's get this post out of the way... break up number three for West and I, but this is it. It's done. I don't want to be with someone who can't decide if they want to be with me or not. Every two months we go through this so I'm done. He broke up with me for the same reasons as last time, and I don't even feel sad. I'm actually relieved to be done with it. I was constantly worrying if we were "overwhelming" him, or if I was giving him enough space. Said and done, I did very much enjoy my time with West, as all the posts have shown. He's a wonderful man. It simply comes down to he needs space and I need companionship. I'm not too worried about finding someone. I'm sure I'll stumble onto someone new at some point.

6 comments:

Anonymous said...

You and I so need to get together! This is right where I am with Mike. It sucks!!!! I need to be strong like you. How do you do it? What can I do? Thanks for giving me hope. I love ya like a fat kid loves cake! :)

Liz said...

Thinking about you.

Unknown said...

What a struggle to keep going through this. You shouldn't have to. I'm thinking about you!

Lewis Family said...

Love you so much! I'm glad you're not too worried about it, cause the ride to finding someone can be a lot of fun. Here's to hoping the twists, turns, ups and downs, make you lol instead of making you wanna toss your cookies in the long run.

Jessica T. said...

Well said Heather!

Just me and my girls said...

Steph,

I am so glad that you found me. I am sorry that you are going through all this...Men suck.

Your girls are beautiful and you look great!

Mindi

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